You’ve been tortured long enough by this narcissist. Now, you want
to give them a taste of their own medicine. Can you learn how to hurt a
narcissist?
I know that the urge for revenge is really strong, especially if
they’ve hurt you or someone you care about. Now, learning how to hurt a
narcissist is no easy game. In fact, you run the risk of having it
backfire in your face and that’s even messier. But if you’re willing to
risk it, then you’re going to need to know how to hurt them.
How to hurt a narcissist in 5 ways
If you’ve been manipulated emotionally and mentally by someone that
acts only out of their self-interest, well, you’ve met a narcissist.
Congratulations! You’ve survived their mental torture. Now, you’ve seen
the light. They hurt you in more ways than one, and you’re putting your
foot down. You’ve had enough.
Naturally, it’s normal to want revenge on them, to make them feel the
pain they’ve put you through. But turning the tables and playing them
at their own game isn’t as easy as it looks. It ain’t easy, but it’s
possible.
#1 Think about it first. Listen, having revenge
against anyone takes a lot of time and effort. Right now, you’re
emotional, you want payback which I totally understand. You can’t do
this while being a hot mess. Before you take one step further, you need
to make sure you’re calm, because if not, you can make some crucial
mistakes which won’t benefit you in any way.
#2 Put feelings to the side. This is super important
and why I’m emphasizing this again and again. You need to remove any
emotion you had for this person. If this was your partner, you have to
drill it into your head that they don’t love you and were just using you
for their own benefit. If you’re emotional, you’ll easily fall back
into their trap which is what they’re going to try to do
#3 Take time to figure them out. Yes, this person
is a narcissist but that’s not enough. If you want to know how to hurt a
narcissist, you need to learn how they tick, what’s going on in their
heads, and where their weaknesses lie. Stop thinking that they’re above
you. Instead, see them as who they really are.
This means you’ll need to look at them objectively in order to find
out their vulnerabilities and weak spots. Once you find them out, use
this information against them.
#4 Focus on their imperfections. A narcissist is
someone obsessed with themselves which means they know their strengths
and weaknesses very well. However, this also means that they’re
extremely vulnerable and mask their insecurities with extreme
confidence.
You were used by them to boost their ego, however, this is the first
step in realizing, if done right, how easy they are to crumble. Instead
of focusing on complimenting them, focus on their vulnerabilities and
flaws without insulting them directly.
#5 Treat them how they treat you. If you want to
make a narcissist feel bad, then dish them a taste of their own
medicine. This is the best way to play with their heads. Do exactly what
they do to you. If they’re hot and cold with you, be hot and cold with
them. If they would ignore you, ignore them. Use the silent treatment as
well, distancing yourself away from them, becoming too busy to spend
time with them.
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